Friday, June 29, 2007

Guadalcanal Memories


I like this story. It reminds me of you falling asleep in our bed.

When I was growing up in Shark River Hills, I knew a boy named Fred Frevert. Fred and I went to school from 4th grade through highschool, and since we were both smart we were in a lot of classes together. Fred was poor. I believe he came from what we then called a "broken family." He lived with his father, who may have been a drinker but in any case was rarely around. Fred and I were not close friends, but for a short period of time we hung our together, mostly because we were in a phase where we both loved DC comics. I loved going to his house after school because there were no grownups there, and we would read and exchange Superman and Batman comics and drink Nehi pop and eat Tastycakes.
In 7th grade English class, we were required to do oral book reports, and I remember Fred doing a report on Guadalcanal Diary, an account of the World War II battle for this Pacific island. I remember this odd detail because in 8th grade English class Fred also did an oral report on Guadalcanal Diary, and then in 9th grade he did yet another report on Guadalcanal Diary. Fred also had bad body odor, and even kids who hardly knew Fred knew those two facts: Fred Frevert has BO and he loves the book Guadalcanal Diary.
I heard from Fred about five years ago, out of the blue. I was working at US News and he noticed my byline and rang me up. He had joined the army after college, and ended up stationed out in the Maryland suburbs, and when he got out of the army he stayed. He was married with a few grown kids. He chatted for about 10 minutes, then we said goodbye. Neither of us suggested getting together.

Watching The Thin Red Line with you stirred up these Guadalcanal memories. Then we fell asleep next to one another.

Thursday, June 28, 2007




Today it seems that everywhere I looked there were couples kissing.

I want to kiss you; now and every day, forever and ever.





Innuendo




Wednesday, June 27, 2007




I love this picture of us and the fact that I am finally back on our blog. I will never go away again!

Friday, June 22, 2007



Don't worry, darling. I've got your back. I love you. Wray

Thursday, June 21, 2007

Meeting the In-laws

Dear Wray,

Please forgive the lateness of this email to tell you how happy I was to meet you! Thanks for making the trip, as I know how busy you and my sister have been and how much traveling you both do to see each other. You clearly are in love with my sister as she is with you and I am so happy for you both! Although our time together was brief, I could see how much you care for her and that is so important to me. She is so important to me, I can't tell youhow thrilled I am that you two met. I really believe meeting you has changed her life! I hope we did not scare you away, ha! It's pretty intimidating to meet your new in-laws all at once. We can be a rowdy group, but we really do have some good qualities, you'll see. I look forward to the wedding, getting to know you and having a long and lasting relationship. Please come west when you get a chance, we have plenty of room. Everyone should see the grand canyon at least once!Take care and let me know when your plans are finalized. I spoke with Susie this morning and she thinks the house is sold!!!!

Kathy

Dear Kathy,

How good to hear from you. I've looked forward to meeting everyone who matters to Susie, but I have been especially keen on meeting you because I know how close you and she are. I can see why she treasures you. All of the Passmores (and nee Passmores) have been so warm and welcoming. I look forward to getting to know all of you better over the years. And you are right: I love your sister fiercely. I will take good care of her.
I am sorry we did not have more time to chat. I have lots of questions about your kids, your work, your studies. I pick up some from Susie, but perhaps we'll end up e-mailing a bit ourselves?
I am also sorry that I cannot accompany Susie to Portland for Matt's wedding. I tease about being "disinvited," but the fact is that both of our summers have suddenly become way overbooked. My youngest, Morgan, arrives next week and will be with me until late August. I love having him, but we also have so much up in the air with the move etc. If the house does sell this week (keep your fingers crossed), we are targeting early September for the transition, but we could actually start moving Susie's things down much sooner than that. It's nice that all your sibs will be gathering for that important event.
Finally, we will get out to visit you soon I am sure. We both like the idea of vacationing at Bryce, Zion, northern rim after the wedding, but even if that does not work out we will no doubt come your way. I have never explored that region of the country, so look forward to it.
Thanks so much for writing.

Albest, Wray


Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Memorial Day 2007

Dear Susie,
Memorial Day is for memories, and I loved putting down some of our own memory traces in St. Michael's. That brief interlude was just a glimmering of what's to come when we explore this world together.
I love you.
Wray





Susie is moving in the right direction